What is my reputation? I am not exactly sure of what others think about me and sometimes my inner-critic tells me that people don’t get me at all, but I keep moving forward. Like Dory says in finding Nemo, “just keep swimming, just keep swimming.” I make a conscious effort to be a positive force in the world no matter what the world throws at me. It isn’t always easy but that’s why reputations are built and not handed out as free gifts with purchase.
If I was a fly on the wall of a meeting where a team of experts had to sum me up, here is what I would hope to overhear:
Loving and Encouraging. She has an amazing way of acknowledging other’s talents and contributions. Last week she gave me a sincere compliment when I was having a really rough day. She is not afraid to show gratitude and love and goes out of her way to make people feel valued.
Insightful. She sees beyond the obvious. Reads people and situations. She has helped me grow by identifying where I may have a blind spot or growth opportunity and then shared it with me in a way that was non-threatening so I could absorb it. She sees the cause and effect in situations and helps others avoid the school of hard knocks. She has great intuition.
Smart. She is creative, innovative, connects dots and is not afraid to try something new or do nothing when appropriate. She looks at a situation from multiple angles and tries on different options and then makes a decision. She doesn’t suffer from analysis paralysis, she takes action. If I had a tough problem to solve, a party to plan or a story that needed telling I would want her on my team.
Fun. She has a great sense of humor and doesn’t take herself or most situations too seriously. She is always willing to break the tension with a joke. I walked into her office and caught her dancing the other day! She is a positive and happy person and shares her joy for life with everyone she meets. I just like to be around her.
Hard working. She does what she says she will do and gets things done. She symbolizes excellence and expects excellence from others. She doesn’t have much tolerance for half-hearted efforts and can be hard to please. She seems to catch me every time I rush through something just to get it off my plate. I have learned a lot from her. When she tells me I did a great job I am very proud.